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Most families in present era plan their family size based on convenience. However, when we look into philosophy, developmental science, maternal health & evolutionary psychology reveals a meaningful structure that exists. A calibrated age gap, that is five years between children, opens up important developmental & relational benefits that smaller gaps often miss. The Spectrum to be understood - No Age Gap vs. Small Gaps When children are born closely together or as twins, they are often at similar cognitive & emotional stages of development. Apparent Advantages of Small Gaps: They share the same peer groups & similar ideas, providing each other with companionship for play & mutual understanding. Hidden Disadvantages: This close relationship can lead to unexpected psychological & physical stress. I will explain how in later part of this blog. The Science of Maternal Physiology & Postpartum Recovery The reason why a age gap between children...

Have you ever stopped to reflect & ask yourself: Is life a game, really? If so, then who holds the controls? Believers assign the Lord of the games it is God. Others would mention Nature, Physics or the Universe in this role. Be it as it may, there is one thing common. We do not have a choice over when to come into this world& we do not have an option of when to logout. Not even our biological Parents the initiators of our biological presence on earth had any control. Even modern science dictates: It takes merely one genetic lottery out of a selection of eight million permutations to determine who you are right down to your genetic predisposition. Therefore, in the ever grand grand designs of the universe even our biological parents were just dice throwers. What is Your Biological & environmental Beginning Line? Your first spin of the dice takes place long before you draw in a breath. You do not have any say over: Your genetics, your present health state or th...

  Where Ethics Meet the Science Most people consider gratitude to be merely a matter of social politeness or  ethical obligation. But both the natural sciences & other sciences about humanity uncover about us is that Gratitude works. In fact, it works so profoundly, powerfully on a deeply moral level & physically level on every part of us that it truly could be the ultimate catalyst for holistic growth. Ethical Footprint & the Social Glue: Gratitude is a way humanity acknowledges that all of us are interconnected, mutually dependent, a vital, important piece of a whole unit of humanity leading to a functioning civilization. Dogs, elephants, horses express thanks for kindness by being loyal, loving, kind, devoted even grateful, in their manner as   mammals our biological design recognizes good treatment. But humans are complex, sophisticated conscious beings for a higher purpose. Human beings give to each other intangibly as well, share trials ...

In most Hindu Indian marriages historically, the custom insisted that the groom was older than the bride? We are not discussing a-decades-ago gap. An Age difference which have been calibrated.   Most of ancient Indian practices an objective have been wisdom concerning human biology, psychology & sociology other than religious dogmas. Science, Biology & Psychology: Science of Neurological Maturity & Cognitive Development: Our brains reach maturity later than our bodies. More specifically, the development of the prefrontal cortex, the seat of our critical thinking skills & impulses, is completed earlier in girls than in boys. By the time they get married in their teens & twenties, the girl’s prefrontal lobe has developed fully & may not have yet reached the maturity in a young man of 21 years of age. Ancient Indian View: A slightly older husband ensured a more similar neurological & psychological development on the part of the groom & bride when they s...